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I have adult children now and was so blessed to have one more. We went from reading board books to Harry Potter and everything in between. I love that! My grandma Snigle my closest friend! I talked to her many times a day until she passed three years ago.
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My mother-in-law is the queen of scratching backs, so when she visits, she takes that job for me. Thanks for posting this, Becky. I was in tears after reading your post. I have a 4 year-old, and I do get irritated when she tells me she wants one more story, then another one, and then another one. I too laid down with my kids, and Single and want to lay in bed with someone up with them in the middle Hook up personals Sobieski Wisconsin the night, and your right it was such a moving experience, I never felt closer to my children than at that time, it was wonderful.
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I will have plenty of time to do my own thing, whatever that is. I questioned them all evening about their day at summer camp and got I forget response until I lay down with them and got told everything in fine detail. I have literally just came across this article and Single and want to lay in bed with someone really hit me.
I normally lay with my 4yr old but when my 10yr old asks I normally tell him i will when im finished with your sister but then never do. I will be making a consious effort every night to make enough time to lay down with distractions to hear all their fabulous stories about their day.
He probably needs it much more than your younger daughter and the time to share like this with him will be ending so soon. Within just a couple years, he most likely will not want you to lie down for many years to come.
Listening to him now will forge a strong bond to help carry him through the soon to be tumultuous teen years. I wish I could go back and do it now. Thank you for this. Dant ten out of eleven kids at home, I often find ssomeone rushing around in survival mode, trying to get things done.
I really needed ti read this. Becky, this post really hit home for me. My 5 year old asks me to lay with him every night, and while I always do, I say the same things you do.
No, how about 2 more minutes? Mine are off to college.
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I want a do over. I should have laid there until they feel asleep. Not left them for something more important.
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And like u said the other things can always wait. Well said. I have a 7 year old boy, 4 year old boy, and 2 year old girl.
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I feel like bedtime is rushed so that we can relax for a few minutes without demanding kids needing something. Anytime I hear of a child passing away, my heart breaks.
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I do, and I stay until he falls asleep.
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I make myself slow down and lie down with the younger two. I am expecting out first right now. This post is a great reminder for me now and I am sure that I will need to be reminded of this many times in the future. Having 6 children is the best blessing I was ever given and I actively try to remember what you are speaking about daily.
We have to remind ourselves often to enjoy every minute…. I think that all kids want us to lay with them at bedtime. If I could just get mine to bed earlier then it might work.
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My daughter, and when her husband could, has read to their son since he was a baby, just like I did with her and her brother, it established the bedtime ritual early.
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Single and want to lay in bed with someone kids are getting older and it is harder but every now and then it is so good to just stop and be in the moment with them. My kids also like for me to spend time with them.
I agree that night times can be hard but one solution I have found is to spend the time with them at nap time. My 3 boys 5, Mobile guy wanting to bust, and 2 share a room and I will often sit on the floor at nap time and listen to them talk to each other.
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Single and want to lay in bed with someone Oh the stories I hear…. Oh, Becky, I so hear what you are saying! My son — who is almost 15 — used to say the same thing and I would always stop what I was doing to lay with him. Nighttime seemed like the perfect time for all of those little stories and secrets to come out.
I love these moments. And when they are grown, they will take time to spend with us. My own children are grown and living their adult lives. I get to see my daughter on a regular basis as she visits with me weekly and does her laundry.
Thank you for reminding us the importance of stopping for a moment for our children. I appreciate all of your replies. I wish we all could hang out in real life.
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