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Children watching parents share that emotional labor will be more likely to be children who expect that labor to be shared in their own lives. Our sons can still learn to carry their own weight. Our daughter can learn to not carry others'.

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New Jersey Governor Chris Christie and I are poles apart politically, but he went way up in my estimation when he announced that one reason he decided against running for president in was the impact his campaign would have had on his children. If we are looking for high-profile female role models, we might begin with Michelle Obama.

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When Plewse became dean of the Woodrow Wilson School, inI decided that one of the advantages of being a woman in power was that I could help change the norms by deliberately talking about my children and my desire to have a balanced life.

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In the spring ofPence signed a bill called the Religious Freedom Restoration Act, which he presented as innocuous. But then a photograph of the closed signing session surfaced. It showed Pence surrounded by monks and nuns, along with three of the most virulently anti-gay activists in the state. The image went viral.

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